Since i have been shamelessly pitching myself for an open relationship, i might as well share what i want to get out of my ideal relationship.

well, here goes...

1) TALK.
Yeah, i need someone i can really talk to and relate to. Well, u know how even though you are talking to a million people at the same time, all you really wanna do is to talk to that one special person and the others just don't matter anymore. Any single thing that happens, you just wanna share it with him... It's tough, finding someone you can really talk to.

2) LAUGH
I need a funny guy. He doesn't hafta be a Chris Rock or a Jimmy Fallon, but at least enough to crack me up at times and make me guffaw.

3) SILLY/MATURE
My guy has to be secure enough to be silly at times. Being able to reconnect with the child in him and being able to act silly with me is IMPT! Also, he must be mature enough to know what he wants in life.

4) HUGS
Hugs warm me and they are important to me. If a hug could speak, it would probably say "everything is gonna be alright" I am an absolute sucker for big bear hugs.

5) CRY
Weird but true. I like a man who cries. Not all the time, but when it matters. It shows that he is a feeling man. Well, another thing that i learnt from my failed rship is that i cry. Alot. I just don't want to be crying alone anymore. I wish there will be someone there for me when i cry. To cry alone, i think, is the saddest thing possible.


well... see, i'm not asking for much eh. Will add more into the list if i think of anything else.

"out of sight but hopefully not out of mind"