You know how sometimes when you're single, the world around you seems to be made up of so many people that come and go so fleetingly in your life? You are meeting different friends every single night, hanging out and chilling with various groups of important people whenever you're free.
Suddenly when you're in Couple-dom, everything seems kinda scaled down. It's not so much that you lose yourself, or lose the friends around you. You still do the same things and hang out with different groups of people, but you don't go around sharing your "load" as much.
Back in the 'trying' times, which was the first few months of my breakup, i found alot of people to share my life with. There were alot of passers-by in my life, and i ended up sharing alot with my various friends and even grew really close to some. Somehow, i wanted to share my problems, my woes, my happiness and my sadness with them, cos i didn't have that special someone. I could repeat my stories or my feelings over and over to at least 5 different people. I just opened up to people who i was never even close to begin with. They listened, maybe cos they wanted to, and some, maybe who were just being polite. Though it was hard, suddenly i gained a few more friends in the process, those who heard me whined, which really happen to be his friends. My own friends are fantabulous, they have been rock solid, by my side. But, his friends surprised me too. I kept thinking the only reason they even talk to me was because of him. I guessed wrong, somehow they cared, just like my own friends too. Thanks if you're reading this, Ans, Meng and Shaun. It meant alot to me.
I guess what i am trying to say is that, for a long while, there were many other people in both our lives, me and him. But as things unfold and work their way out, we still trust and confide in each other. Things are pretty much almost back to what they used to be. We talk, we laugh, we tell our happiest thoughts to each other and share our saddest moments together. It just happened naturally, and we couldn't even plan it. Unknowingly, we're kinda each other's rock again.
It just seems right. Feels right.
Thanks for being here and reaffirming it.
Suddenly when you're in Couple-dom, everything seems kinda scaled down. It's not so much that you lose yourself, or lose the friends around you. You still do the same things and hang out with different groups of people, but you don't go around sharing your "load" as much.
Back in the 'trying' times, which was the first few months of my breakup, i found alot of people to share my life with. There were alot of passers-by in my life, and i ended up sharing alot with my various friends and even grew really close to some. Somehow, i wanted to share my problems, my woes, my happiness and my sadness with them, cos i didn't have that special someone. I could repeat my stories or my feelings over and over to at least 5 different people. I just opened up to people who i was never even close to begin with. They listened, maybe cos they wanted to, and some, maybe who were just being polite. Though it was hard, suddenly i gained a few more friends in the process, those who heard me whined, which really happen to be his friends. My own friends are fantabulous, they have been rock solid, by my side. But, his friends surprised me too. I kept thinking the only reason they even talk to me was because of him. I guessed wrong, somehow they cared, just like my own friends too. Thanks if you're reading this, Ans, Meng and Shaun. It meant alot to me.
I guess what i am trying to say is that, for a long while, there were many other people in both our lives, me and him. But as things unfold and work their way out, we still trust and confide in each other. Things are pretty much almost back to what they used to be. We talk, we laugh, we tell our happiest thoughts to each other and share our saddest moments together. It just happened naturally, and we couldn't even plan it. Unknowingly, we're kinda each other's rock again.
It just seems right. Feels right.
Thanks for being here and reaffirming it.
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Jack Johnson
"Better Together"
There is no combination of words
I could put on the back of a postcard
And no song that I could sing, but I can try for your heart
Our dreams, and they are made out of real things
Like a shoebox of photographs with sepia tone loving
Love is the answer
At least for most of the questions in my heart
Why are we here and where do we go
And how come it's so hard
It's not always easy and sometimes life can be deceiving
I'll tell you one thing
It's always better when we're together
Mmm, it's always better when we're together
Yeah, we'll look at the stars when we're together
Well, it's always better when we're together
Yeah, it's always better when we're together
And all of these moments just might find a way into my dreams tonight
But I know that they'll be gone when the morning light sings
Or brings new things for tomorrow night you see
That they'll be gone too, too many things I have to do
But if all of these dreams might find their way into my day to day scene
I'd be under the impression I was somewhere in between
With only two, just me and you, not so many things we got to do
Or places we got to be, we'll sit beneath the mango tree now
Yeah, it's always better when we're together
Mmm, we're somewhere in between together
Well, it's always better when we're together
Yeah, it's always better when we're together (mmm)
I believe in memories, they look so, so pretty when I sleep
And when I wake up, you look so pretty sleeping next to me
But there is not enough time
And there is no, no song I could sing
And there is no combination of words I could say
But I will still tell you one thing
We're better together
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You two are better together eh
=) It's really sweet. Thanks. =)
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