i was just watching this show, where this couple, who are both doctors work in the same hospital.

male doc has got a female admirer in the form of a nurse who works under his wife. all 3 know that there is something happening as the nurse "nurses" a crush on the male doc.
male doc doesn't feel the same way about the nurse, but just doesn't know how to reject her. wife learns about it through observing him & her, and takes the first move in talking to the nurse, and trying to dissuade her by using analogies. nurse does not heed advice. then wife opens up and talks to male doc, saying that though it is not really his fault, he should still clarify matters with the nurse, and make things clear to her. most imptantly, wife believes the male doc, her husband, and has absolute faith in him, and leaves it up to him to clarify matters.

well, i guess if everyone is like the wife, all marriages would have faith. affairs would be few and far between.

i guess this is really what i want in my rship, is to have absolute faith. and that is what i have now.