suddenly i seem to have alot of thoughts going through my mind, and i guess one of the main reasons i blog is cos of its cathartic effects, allowing me to release my emotions through the act of typing... and getting an "ahhhh" feeling after that.
i learn alot more about the world, and about myself every single day. i relish this experience of learning and growing and, being the wisecrack that i am, i do fear the day when i am, but a know-it-all and the sponge that i am, is saturated to the point that i can learn no more, or have no want to learn.
today, i learnt that sometimes its good to keep your eye and ears closed. you know how its good sometimes to listen and learn, watch and learn. well, today i guess its just not one of those days.
nothing major happened, and that is my point. i am doing pretty well this new year, great things have happened to me, and i am happy. i feel cared for and wanted, i feel like i am progressing etc. The most important thing of being happy, is being able to keep that feeling in you and feel content. Sometimes the urge to want more is there but still, keeping yourself in check and knowing when enough is enough is important. To maintain this equilibrum, understand how you reached here and how to stay here.
i'm happy today and i was happy yesterday...keeping this equilibrum, stay mum, keep my mouth shut, ears shut, eyes shut.
i'm content.
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on a side topic, i guess most couples will realise this and i do feel and begin to learn this. One of the most important things in a rship is knowing your partner's flaws and being able to accept them.
knowing your partner is one thing, but witnessing and going through rough patches where their flaws jump right at you and stare you in the face is the make-it or break-it point. No one is 100% perfect but most importantly, can your partner withstand your worst quality, be it a character flaw or a behaviourial flaw.
if your partner can accept that the flaw is part of who you are, and still love you despite having the flaw, and stands by you no matter what, then, woah, hang on tight to him/her. its not easy to find that someone who sees it, yet still accepts you for the person that you are.
having found that someone, you will feel inclined to change that flaw, and be a better person, even though it isn't an issue anymore.
that... ladies and gentlemen, i guess is how true love can make a person, better.
i learn alot more about the world, and about myself every single day. i relish this experience of learning and growing and, being the wisecrack that i am, i do fear the day when i am, but a know-it-all and the sponge that i am, is saturated to the point that i can learn no more, or have no want to learn.
today, i learnt that sometimes its good to keep your eye and ears closed. you know how its good sometimes to listen and learn, watch and learn. well, today i guess its just not one of those days.
nothing major happened, and that is my point. i am doing pretty well this new year, great things have happened to me, and i am happy. i feel cared for and wanted, i feel like i am progressing etc. The most important thing of being happy, is being able to keep that feeling in you and feel content. Sometimes the urge to want more is there but still, keeping yourself in check and knowing when enough is enough is important. To maintain this equilibrum, understand how you reached here and how to stay here.
i'm happy today and i was happy yesterday...keeping this equilibrum, stay mum, keep my mouth shut, ears shut, eyes shut.
i'm content.
+
on a side topic, i guess most couples will realise this and i do feel and begin to learn this. One of the most important things in a rship is knowing your partner's flaws and being able to accept them.
knowing your partner is one thing, but witnessing and going through rough patches where their flaws jump right at you and stare you in the face is the make-it or break-it point. No one is 100% perfect but most importantly, can your partner withstand your worst quality, be it a character flaw or a behaviourial flaw.
if your partner can accept that the flaw is part of who you are, and still love you despite having the flaw, and stands by you no matter what, then, woah, hang on tight to him/her. its not easy to find that someone who sees it, yet still accepts you for the person that you are.
having found that someone, you will feel inclined to change that flaw, and be a better person, even though it isn't an issue anymore.
that... ladies and gentlemen, i guess is how true love can make a person, better.
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